Have you ever had a series of things happen to you and you realize you are dealing with a situation in which you need help or are forced to make a BIG change?  Let’s say the situation finally became crystal clear to you so that you had your “aha” moment that took weeks or months or years to figure out.  How do you process it?  How do you summarize this HUGE problem into something manageable? It’s like I can see something clearly I couldn’t see before and now I have to deal with it.  

Why must there be mean manipulative people?  Why can’t everyone see and make these people accountable?  Why are there bullies and how can they continue to get away with their actions?  It’s exhausting.  Mean people suck.  

When you try to explain one of these situations to someone that isn’t going through it, they only get small doses of the problem and have a hard time understanding just how bad the situation is.  It makes you want to scream from the roof tops!   Until your situation happens to someone else or until you can explain fully enough to someone else what is happening, it’s a super lonely feeling.