I don’t know about you but that sentence makes me uncomfortable.  I seriously don’t like if someone is mad at me or doesn’t like me.  

There are different scenerios but say at work if a customer thinks you are only trying to sell them something when you know you are giving them expert product advice makes me feel like they don’t trust my level of knowledge.  It’s my job to convey my confidence in my work and that isn’t always able to be done in a phone call or quickly.  All I can do is try and realize you can’t win them all.  Some people will remain skeptical and may take time gaining trust.

In every group of friends there will be someone you don’t click with.  Generally in my case I find those that play games and are secretly sabatoging friendships are the ones I avoid.  It’s okay to me if that person doesn’t like me.  What isn’t okay to me is if the “game players” have wrecked havoc on one of my friendships and left others dazed and confused.  

15 years ago, I fell victim to a “game player” who married my ex and wrecked havoc on my family leaving my ex inlaws dazed and confused.

Look back at the people you used to be like and be friends with.  Try figure out why you aren’t anymore.  It’s never to late to rekindle old friendships.